DAVID WHITESOCK — Because I have been called out, more than once, in the comments section of Brian Broekemeier’s column, “Please, have the kid, we’ll deal with it,” I thought it appropriate to explain why I decided to let the column run as it was submitted to me.
There seems to be an odd assumption that when someone; columnist, blogger, whomever, writes about abortion, that something new will be said or that everyone will just agree and that as that. Obviously this is never the case, so when writers do decide to stand upon this third rail, they play it safe, usually discussing policy positions or the latest in legal nuances from state to state.
Yawn. (except for the legal nuances… I’m a nerd)
Brian told me he was writing something up about abortion, and immediately I said “great!” From what I know of Brian’s writing to this point, it happens to be sarcastic, witty, and oftentimes satirical. This piece isn’t a direct satire, but it is witty and certainly sarcastic.
What he believes on the issue is irrelevant. I do not know his position on abortion, and frankly, I don’t care. What I do know, is that when I finished reading the piece, the only thought in my mind was, “huh, why isn’t there more talk about responsibility?”
We tend to merely discuss this issue down a woman’s right to chose or a religiously wrong line. Sure, those are the two sides, but let’s put religion aside and simply examine what is morality. You do not need to be of faith or subscribe to any such religion to be a moral person. As humans, we have set natural moral laws. These laws are basic. Don’t kill. Don’t steal. And, of course, there is the golden rule of treat others how you wish to be treated. Follow these fundamental rules and civilization could be good.
What has happened along the way, however, is we have confused liberty and freedom with a right to do whatever we want — this is so remarkably contrary to the idea of personal freedom, it is laughable. If you are a moral individual and you believe fully in your heart the tenets of liberty, than aborting an unborn child (regardless of the stage of birth) is absolutely wrong.
(Consider that this commentary is coming from a Libertarian!)
We all have an unalienable right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness — this begins at the very beginning, does it not? Pro-choicers extend their philosophy based on these words scripted in the Declaration of Independence, but I guarantee if you asked Jefferson, Madison, or Franklin (Locke, Bacon, Hobbes from years before too) their thoughts on this matter, they would suggest that you have bastardized their meaning of freedom and liberty.
Last night while at the Political Science Awards Banquet, Matt Michaels, former South Dakota House of Representatives Speaker, gave a keynote address on public service, but more so on service to others. He said a number of times that governments cannot hug you, kiss you, wipe away your tears or even solve your problems. People do these things. Yet, this is what we have attempted to have our governments do, from the local level all they way up to the federal level.
You want the government to take care of you when you make a mistake. Well, that thinking is the mistake. You err, and you must deal with it. Government is merely a means for securing the very basic and fundamental rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Government is there to secure life.
If you, and the individual you tango with, make a mistake and a pregnancy ensues, then it is not government which is meant to solve this issue for you — it is you, your partner, your family, and your community (i.e., church, neighborhood, etc.).
The debate which has been taking place in South Dakota for the last few years has been about the exceptions to the abortion law — those exceptions being rape, incest, and harm to the mother’s life. All of these instances of protection are proper and constitutional, not to mention morally correct. This is government acting within the natural law bounds set forth by Jefferson in the Declaration and carried out through the Constitution.
We have the freedom to do what we will to our bodies, consume alcohol or drugs, eat 18 cheeseburgers, pierce our unmentionables, whatever, but morally, the taking of our life or the taking of a life inside of us, is inhuman on every level — not just a religious one.
I let Brian’s column run because this is the debate I hoped would be had. I hoped a debate about morals and responsibility would come of it. We all have a responsibility for our own actions. If a man decides that he is going to not live up to his end of the bargain, then those around the woman need to step up and help her out — not some uncaring and unfeeling government program — but actual people who can hug and cry. As much as Hillary Clinton’s “It Takes a Village” phrase makes me want to projectile vomit, when the shit hits the fan with our family and friends, the village better step up to the plate, because that is how it is done, that is how we move forward, and that is how we know that when it is us who needs help, it will be there.